As men....

As men there are many things that we have to do to act as "Good People."  We have to act like we care about what women are talking about, which is one of our biggest struggles to overcome.  But not only that, we have to comprehend what they are saying so we are prepared to answer the questions, that we all know are coming, that she will ask.  I am not saying that listening to women is a horrible thing.  Just listening to women about what they think to be important.  "Do these shoes look good with this hat?" That is probably the best example I can give you.  And the most ridiculous thing to care about on this earth.  Sure, if you were to ask, "How do I look?"  Fine!  No Problem, got that one in the bag... simple... you look great.  But then the questions that she has which apparently came as offsprings to your answer.  "Well Jane said I don't look good in this outfit last week." "I don't think I look good though?  "Are you sure I do"  And then the most ridiculous comment of them all after an hour answering her questions and telling her she looks great..... "Well, you know what, I'm not gonna wear this outfit."  IF YOU HAD ANY DOUBT ABOUT THAT OUTFIT 3 MINUTES IN..... WHY WOULDN'T YOU MAKE UP YOUR MIND THEN?!  Because it wasted an hour of my life that I will never get back and another hour to be thrown out the window is coming once you put on your next ridiculous outfit.  LADIES! PLEASE!  Just help us out a little bit.  Usually we are with you because we love you, not because of the outfits you wear.  Or we are with you because you're just drop dead gorgeous and we have to deal with it to get any lovin'.  Just try and understand what we go through.  So before you ask us next time, really look at yourself in the mirror and think what you think.... if you feel you look good go with it.  Because if we don't and we say it, so goes our relationship.  Thank you for your time.